20 July, 2007

Abundance League "Food Edition" 7/26 @ 6pm

Food! Delicious, nourishing, beautiful food! In and of itself, it's essential to life and a basic pleasure. But as we've all undoubtedly experienced, it has a special power to bring people together. The meal as a social ritual seems to be part of all cultures.

This month we explore food as a social technology. Neal Gorenflo will share his experience hosting simple dinner parties with an emphasis on connection rather than Martha Stewartesque ostentation. You don't have to bend over backwards to entertain! In fact, that might just get in the way of building community.

Neal will bring a couple of his favorite easy-but-healthy dishes to share and will facilitate a discussion about entertaining in a sensible, sustainable way, a way that makes it more likely you'll bring your friends together again and again. Feel free to bring your favorite dish or recipe as well.

And as always, please come prepared to tell us about your passions, discuss your needs, and share your gifts so that members of the community can support each other in building the lives we want to live.

MEETING INFO
What: The Abundance League Monthly Gathering
When: Thursday, July 26th 6:00-10:00pm
Where: Doris and Harald's place, 1168 Folsom Street - Unit # 304
Call 415.861.6445 if you have trouble finding the meeting

AGENDA
6:00 - 6:30 - mingle
6:30 - 7:15 - announcements
7:15 - 7:30 - break, nosh, mingle, exchange support
7:30 - 8:30 - presentation
8:30 - 10:00 - nosh, mingle, exchange support, clean up

BRING
Friends! All are welcome. And healthy food or drink for the potluck.

11 July, 2007

The Importance of Being Civil

There was an interesting talk about civility yesterday on KQED's Forum, with Michael Krasny. The talk was sparked by a recent outbreak of un-civility at a San Francisco Board of Supervisors meeting where "Supervisor Chris Daly angrily suggested Mayor Gavin Newsom uses cocaine and is hypocritically slashing funding for substance abuse treatment for poor people."

There was a couple of really great points made by the guests:

  • That often the style of discourse upstages the issue. It was Chris Daly's behavior that was reported on, not the issue of cuts in public health funding.
  • That civility is crucial for democracy, both at the interpersonal level and institutionally. It better enables discourse, interpersonal connection, and the free exchange of ideas so important to a democratic society.
  • That the mainstream media encourages un-civility by rewarding personalities who get ratings through personal attacks and mean-spirited discourse. Guests mentioned Ann Coulter and Rush Limbaugh as examples of those that have become financially rich at the expense of public civility.
  • That there should be some standards in public life, but that they should not be imposed by the government, rather they should be created, agreed upon, and supported by those hosting and participating in forums.

All good points. I've often thought civility is the cement that holds civilization together. If it's washed away, then the whole structure crumbles.

At Abundance League meetings we support civility by encouraging people to form relationships around and talk about substantive life projects, especially those that are core to a person's being, i.e. their passion or calling. And by encouraging social accessibility and self-defined identity.

I think the main thing I want to say with this post is that each of us is responsible for the creation and protection of a civil atmosphere and that our daily actions and words count in making that happen. There's a lot each of us can do in our everyday life to open up the channels between our friends, family, neighbors, or anyone we might meet in this great world. Each of us can make sure these channels are filled with talk and ideas that make us happy and vibrant.

I, for one, am not going to let Rush Limbaugh or Ann Coulter shape the social environment I live in. I take responsibility for shaping it, and with help from friends and family, there is much we can do each day to create a vibrant and abundant social atmosphere. This includes, among many other things, tuning out the deadening drum beat of demogogues and tuning into the enlivening song of dreams and ideas shared amongst friends, family, and fellow citizens.

10 July, 2007

Abundance - My Word of the Year 2006

Being an non-native speaker I did not not know the word "abundance" when I first came across The Abundance League. Human resources as opposed to natural resources, which we keep on exploiting day by day, are indeed abundant. They are just not very well distributed. In social network analysis, we talk about and are able to observe an interesting phenomenon,"homophily" (i.e. love of the same).

With regards to the exchange of resources, this means that people that already stick together are less likely to offer each other something they lack. This means that people in our immediate environment often share the same passions and interests, possess similar talents and convictions, and have access to the very same resources. A phenomena which is very much supported and reinforced by web 2.0 technologies. This morning I just had a discussion with Harald (Harold) Katzmair over breakfast in D.C. how web 2.0 applications very much combat what they wish to offer. Other than linking us with people who could enrich each other and bring something new and exiting to the table, stir creativeness and allow for diverse views these technologies guide us towards reinforcement of our ego and echo-chambers effects.

Abundance as I envisioned the word is bright, multicolored, overcooking with ideas and action, bouncing up and down with energy. A crazy lively marketplace in constant transition and motion, because everything is a valuable input for something else creating a new output, allowing for new needs and offers. Such a match is less likely to be found with the friend but exponentially more likely with the friend of a friend, or even a step beyond.

I hope for the Abundance League to bring together the friends' of the friends' of the friend's talents, resources and ideas. Lets figure out how we can use the blog to exploit this very idea. There are enough blogs out there written for an audience met at work or dinner anyway. Lets find a way to expand it beyond our delicate circle and build a league, an army bigger than the one in Iraq.

09 July, 2007

A Note on the Blog Header

As you can probably tell from the blog header I designed, I'm not a graphic designer. And as such, I'm not sure what I'm conveying with the header, so I thought I'd at least make my intentions clear.

Let's start with the map-like background. It's excerpted from a social network map of The Abundance League Doris Spielthenner created using data from a member survey. Maritza Schafer and I (hosts of the Abundance League monthly meeting) created the survey with Doris' help. We asked members who they go to for help in various areas such as event planning, communications, fundraising, and technology as well as for personal reasons like emotional support and to talk about social concerns. We asked folks to list members and nonmembers they go to for help and support as well as how they know the person (the affiliation, like through work, etc.).

Well, Doris is a crackerjack social network analyst with a data fetish, so she was happy create social network maps of Abundance League members using the survey data as input. Doris, awesome job! And I was curious to see if our little social experiment was headed in the right direction.

I should give you some background to explain what "headed in the right direction means." My friends are a unique collection of social scientists, artists, and activists. My perspective about the interplay between social structure and culture and the powerful part they play in determining the quality of individual and collective experience has been shaped in this milieu. The Abundance League emerged from this milieu as an experiment to self-consciously architect - using ideas from social science and personal experience - a social structure and value system meant to generate good experiences and, on small local scale, increase well-being through purpose-driven social support.

As a founder, I was motivated to experiment for two reasons. First, because I wanted richer life experiences. I knew from a number of peak experiences that incredible moments were possible and that they centered around people and groups operating in a certain mode, one filled with openness, play, inclusiveness, creativity, authentic connection, and shared passions. This begged a simple question, "how could experience this more frequently?" It became obvious that I could not do this alone. These were collective experiences.

Secondly, as someone who shares the goals of environmentalists if not the mode, I'm convinced that the byproduct of a society that prioritizes health and happiness would be environmental sustainability. I think environmentalists and sustainabilistas have put the cart before horse. In general, they advocate a reordering of our material world to achieve sustainability. This seems like treating the symptom rather than the disease to me. And it leaves open the possibility of a "new and improved" consumer culture - the same poor experiences, but made green. Umm, no thanks.

Sure, society needs to change how it produces things. However necessary, I think it's totally insufficient. I believe the consumption juggernaut and the resultant environmental degradation are rooted in social structure and culture. Social structures and values drive behavior. Our current setup - reinforced by billions in advertising, government economic policies that support growth at all costs, a celebrity obsessed media, and car-dependent metroplexes - prioritize production and consumption while arguably doing little to support health and happiness if not actively working against it. If society prioritized supporting people in great life experiences, we'd get happier people, better social outcomes as a society, and, oh, by the way, the load on mother earth would lighten up quite a bit too.

The practice of sharing illustrates this perfectly. Imagine that tomorrow you woke up in a society where sharing was a priority, where the infrastructure, social structure, and culture made sharing a pervasive, ordinary, everyday experience. Obviously, you'd be living in a world that only yesterday consumed and wasted far more resources, but it would also be a world that offered people many more chances to help and connect with one another, behaviors known to support well being.

In any case, I'm interested in the topology of abundance, the social structure of happiness, and exploring a culture that complements and supports this structure. And having great experiences daily. Re-architecting industrial processes and greening consumer goods won't make us any happier nor does it guarantee a reduction in resource consumption. I believe that consumer culture, no matter how green, will still undermine human health and cripple our planet if it continues on it's path of continual escalation (increases in per capita consumption) and assimilation (increases in participants globally).

OK, that explains why I was curious about the map, back to the mapping project itself. So Doris presented the results to members about a year ago at FAS.research, where she works and where we hold our monthly meetings (thanks FAS!). The results were encouraging. The key finding of our not overly rigorous research project was that members connect to a large number of people outside of The Abundance League for resources and that there was a small, but strong core group with high trust and access to one another.

Doris summed this up as "strong core, trust / access - rich, emergent periphery." This gave us some indication our modest experiment, while still in a early stage, was evolving, albeit slowly, in the right direction. A sustainable, adaptive community has a strong, stable core with access to people, ideas and resources outside of the core enabling individuals and the community to co-evolve within a larger social system. At the individual level, a sense of security from group membership combined with a sense that there our opportunities beyond the core group should be a psychological positive. The graph accompanying this post supported this conclusion.

That explains the map background, I hope. The orange thingy with the lettering inside of the map is a riff on the header of the Economist magazine. Economics is classically defined as the study of the allocation of scarce resources. It's also know as the grim science. Well, we're entering a new world where it's increasingly recognized that a truly rich life, above a certain minimum standard of living, are centered on things that are available in abundance - like love, belonging, good relationships, purpose, creativity, hope, and opportunities to help one another. And even our supply of time expands with a life lived deeply. We more often have the presence of mind to experience time as a hologram, with our past, present, and future synthesized seamlessly into moments of beauty and transcendence.

In any case, the lettering and map attempt to make a statement about The Abundance League, that it's an experiment in social and cultural design that could lead to better life experiences for participants, and richer, more abundant lives. That being said, I'm open to better ideas for a header!

Thanks Neal

For setting up our overdue blog for TAL. The Abundance League has been a transformative experience for me and I look forward to expanding our discussions from our cozy and fun potluck to an online discussion. Man, that felt great to say! I guess more often than not these days we are trying to take our virtual experiences offline, and I'm proud to say we are having the opposite challenge.

08 July, 2007

About The Abundance League

The Abundance League is a monthly salon that features networking, guest speakers, and discussion to encourage social creativity in everyday life.

Past salons have covered clothing swaps, intentional community, compassionate communication, storytelling, social entrepreneurship, independent media, eco-cooperatives, community gardening, sustainable entertaining, and more. And we've showcased artists, poets and musicians that inspire a culture of generosity, collaboration, and service.

The Abundance League embodies the idea that by taking stock of our bountiful gifts and sharing them freely, we can turn scarcity into abundance, help each other connect to our potential, and create lives rich in satisfying experiences. Abundance League is a salon, solutions showcase, and a model for those who share this vision.

Who comes to Abundance League?
Everyone is welcome, so all kinds of folks come - young and experienced, singles and families, and those of many different races, religions, ideologies, sexual orientations, and professions. While diverse, members tend to act on a key insight, that working together for the common good leads to abundance in all it's forms - health, wealth, happiness, friendship, know how, and great experiences.

Join us!
Meetings in San Francisco are usually the third Thursday of every month. To get meeting announcements or to inquire about speaking at a meeting, please send an e-mail to gorenflo at gmail dot com.

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